He stood me up, time to write this one off

I was really mad tonight. This is just total BS. Stupid me, went back on my own word about not suggesting meeting up but I felt bad for him. He got laid off and I wanted to cheer him up so I asked if he just wanted to meet up for coffee to hang out and chat. He was all gung ho for it and asking me what time and for me to pick a place and it didn't matter where exactly it was that we would figure it out upon arrival etc.

We were planning to meet up at 7:00pm. I get a text message at 6:15pm saying he just walked into his softball meeting but it was suppose to end at 7:00pm. He did say he would be a little late. ok, so I take off in my car and arrive at the meeting point at 7:15. He sends a message at 7:30 saying he is still in the meeting and he will be out soon. 8:00 rolls around and I ask him how much longer. He says he had no idea it was going to be that late and he says it should be over soon. So I grab a bite to eat. 8:20 I message him again asking if we can meet closer to my house since. He says ok and "it should be over soon". I'm sitting in my car at 9:00pm and still no word from him.

I called DE and he was annoyed at me calling him and talking about Mike. He straight up tells me "Ok, I don't want to hear about this guy anymore. Either you suck it up and deal with his BS or you dump him and move on. He obviously feels a softball meeting is more important than going on a date with you". No matter how harsh those last words sounded to me, I knew DE was right. Why was I letting this guy just spin me around like this?! he obviously isn't that into me but has ulterior motives of keeping me on the back burner. Like his back up girl. And maybe, just maybe he was out with another girl and he was trying to juggle 2 back to back dates. Seriously, what sort of softball meeting lasts 3 fricken hours?!

So I sent him a text message "This isn't going to work out. [my son] is going to be dropped off in 10 minutes". Then complete silence from his side.

I drove home and cried a little but realized God must had answered my prayer last night. At bible study I asked for prayer regarding him; that if he wasn't intended to be something significant in my life; that God would remove him now.