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    <subtitle>Everyday changes for my happy ever after</subtitle>  
    
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        <title>I have a little crush on a younger man</title>   
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         Scary! I don’t like to date younger men. I have in the past and I just feel I am in a different place than they are. I’m already a mom and want the happy family life. A warm, caring husband and more children. Someone to snuggle up on the couch wit...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Get back together after a divorce</title>   
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        <published>2008-12-03T08:35:54Z</published>
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         I’m afraid to admit this. It’s pretty frightening to throw this out there because I fear what it really means and what other people would think of me. While I was down visiting my parents and family over the Thanksgiving holiday.  Click to read th...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Screening a date or job interview?</title>   
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        <published>2008-12-01T16:56:55Z</published>
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          I didn’t have time to blog about my latest conversation with a man named Jay before I left for Thanksgiving, so here it is. I met him on a Christian Dating site called Christiandatingforfree.com. It’s an ok dating website. It’s free so that’s alw...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>New location and new name</title>   
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        <published>2008-12-01T03:27:02Z</published>
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         I&#39;m moving my blog over to wordpress with a new URL and a new name. My blog will now be updated at http://www.singlemomdating.net       <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Is it an excuse?</title>   
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        <published>2008-11-20T16:39:21Z</published>
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         I just returned home from dropping off my son at school and I received a message from Mike through a dating site we met on. Anyhow he was apologizing for last night. He said they ended up in a car wreck and they got home after 12:30am. He wanted t...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>He stood me up, time to write this one off</title>   
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        <published>2008-11-20T07:56:55Z</published>
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         I was really mad tonight. This is just total BS. Stupid me, went back on my own word about not suggesting meeting up but I felt bad for him. He got laid off and I wanted to cheer him up so I asked if he just wanted to meet up for coffee to hang ou...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>He&#39;s not married</title>   
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        <published>2008-11-18T08:20:21Z</published>
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         My cellphone is on its last limb. My trackball wasn&#39;t registering so I took it out to clean it. Only when I went to put it back in; I couldn&#39;t. I had bent the metal too much so it wasn&#39;t going to plan. Because of y phone being broken, I somehow ma...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Subtle Cancellations</title>   
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        <published>2008-11-17T08:06:52Z</published>
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         Friday night I called my best friend to  tell her about my ex&#39;s engagement and she says &quot;That&#39;s so weird. How can you marry someone who&#39;s bisexual?&quot;. I asked her to clarify what she meant. She said &quot;[ex&#39;s name] is bi. Didn&#39;t you know that?&quot; What??...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Why I am glad I am not with my ex</title>   
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        <published>2008-11-14T23:41:29Z</published>
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         This needs to be done! It&#39;s time.  Reasons why I am glad to not be with my ex-husband anymore:  1.) He has ADHD and makes it too difficult to hold conversations with him. I would have to make sure he isn&#39;t watching TV, reading a book, looking at a...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>2 1/2 weeks</title>   
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        <published>2008-11-12T09:08:21Z</published>
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         Mike and I have been dating for 2 1/2 weeks. In that time we have sent over 1,000 text messages. (I know because I have had to upgrade my plan to avoid paying per text.) We have gone on two dates. I was the one to suggest meeting for coffee and th...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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